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Should you be friends first before dating

Chemicals like testosterone, dopamine or even oxytocin are the contributing factors to a feel good connection when we meet someone new.

He Would Never Make The Same Mistakes That Your Ex Did He’s your friend, so it’s a good chance he knows how badly your previous relationships went.

Perhaps you told him about the ex who used to lick your face, or maybe you told him about the guy who slept with you once or twice before failing to return your texts and calls. If he’s your buddy, he’s going to make darn sure that he doesn’t make the same mistakes that your ex did.

Having this type of honesty is essential to a relationship – just always keep in mind friends are never degrading or discouraging, either. Imagine that kind of closeness, that kind of understanding, that kind of comfort, with someone who you are also in love with.

Being friends with a guy before you get into a relationship with him has numerous advantages.

For this reason, I also believe men try to actually building a friendship with a woman because he doesn’t want to find himself plunging into the dreaded friend zone, and suddenly be seen more as a brother than a potential boyfriend.

But the issue this causes is that we are not building strong foundations for relationships.

Of course, we should consistently try to be these things as often as humanly possible, but the fact of the matter is that we are all going to have bad days. Life throws us curveballs – and expecting a shining exterior every second of every day is not only unrealistic, but it is also dishonest. How are you going to survive your 4-hour drive in the car together? We need this type of comfort to just be able to sit with each other in silence and not feel a nagging urge to say or do something to break the silence. It’s not like you are going to choose a random person off the street – but what’s more is that your friends know how you think and you know how they think.

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25-Jan-2017 14:02